If you have just a couple of Thai girl friends with normal jobs like most expats in Thailand do using Thai Cupid, even uni girls that do no sideline and learn to speak Thai you will easily be able to tell the difference between a good and bad Thai girl not only by how they are speaking but also by how they behave.
One easy, obvious but true thing even beginner students of the Thai language can watch out for is how regularly she uses the polite particle “ka”.
I’d say more than 80 percent of the foreign men coming to Thailand (who are not in healthy relationships) are having sex with a Thai bar girl or any kind of Thai hooker – and out of all these guys not more than 10 percent would admit that to their friends back home.
A lot of foreigners don’t even want to call them “prostitutes” because they think it’s just so different here in Thailand where you can pay for a girl the first time then get her phone number and arrange the second date for free and the only thing you have to pay for is dinner and whatever she randomly picks up at the 7 eleven while you go buy the condoms.
But maybe another reason why a lot of foreigners fall in love with a bar girl too easily and then they don’t get to learn Thai is because the Thai bar girl’s English is generally decent – at least better than the standard office girl’s – and bar girls are too lazy to teach you Thai anyway, often they don’t even want their Farang boyfriend to speak Thai so they can continue gossiping about him with their friends right in front of his face.
Obviously the majority of these people are working in the “entertainment industry”.
So don’t even think about having sex with a Thai bar girl without using a condom.
I know there is so much more to write and discuss about but I think that should be enough for now, I’m curious how you see the whole Thai bar girl topic and look forward to reading your comments on this.
Well, one more thing before that: Thailand is among the countries that have the highest rates of people infected by the HIV virus.